Six weeks sounds a lot shorter to me than it feels. These have been the longest 42 days of my life. Does anyone else feel this way, or is it just me? I feel like it’s been months and months since I kissed Matt for the last time.
I still feel lost, but maybe not quite as lost – at least not all of the time. I hate hate HATE all of this but I’m still hanging on and not giving up. It’s a constant fight and I do feel bitter towards Matt sometimes for making me go through this. But I can’t stay mad at him for long. I never could.
5 thoughts on “Six weeks now.”
I still have trouble believing he’s really gone.
I’ve read that that’s common, but I think it’s been more dreadfully real to me since he just isn’t here. If he was alive, he would be. I haven’t been able to entertain much denial.
I know part of this has to do with school, for me, but it feels like it’s been about three weeks.
Hey, Erin. I just wanted to let you know that I mailed off a package to you this afternoon, but I accidentally forgot to include the card I bought. I remember specifically thinking that I needed to remember to stick the card in the box before sealing it, then proceeded to seal the box without sticking the card in. I really want to blame it on my pregnant brain, but I’m sure it was just me being silly. Anyway, there’s just a few things in there to cheer you up. Don’t expect too much, but I hope you like them just the same. Love you.
Now, it’s been almost four months, and I still can’t believe it. Like, sometimes when we hang out… I feel like he should be coming in any second, or I’ll think of something I should tell Matt during our conversations.
The bitterness thing I can relate to. Except it’s probably more anger for me. That’s the biggest thing that’s different about us I suppose. I am furious at Clay most of the time. The love and heart ache are often clouded by extreme anger. It’s hard to see him for the person that I loved because he did these horrible things.
Also, I couldn’t imagine staying mad at Matt long either.